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Posted by: Prismstar
Type of dream: Sad
Time of day: Nightdream
Enjoyment level: Did Not Enjoy Dream
Recurring: No
Date posted: 2008-07-03 22:20:45
Date of dream: 0000-00-00
Keyword 1: in love but not toge
Keyword 2: loving each other
Keyword 3: dream of being toget
Description: Recently in real life on November 2007, I became re-acquainted with an ex boyfriend that I never got over. He thought that I had possibly died during the 9/11 attacks, but finally did a search and tracked me down at my professional website and contacted me by email. He tried to get me to see him unsuccessfully 3 times for coffee. I finally relented and that night we both discovered that we still have deep feelings for each other and that we are both in very unhappy marriages. Now the dream: This May 2008 I dreamed that this same ex-boyfriend with whom I have recently been re-acquainted (he is married with a daughter and I am married with no children) came to pick me up in his car to take me to a function at a church. Seated in back of his car were were his mother, his sister and a young girl, that in the dream I believed was his daughter. My ex-boyfriend introduced me to his mother and sister and instead of sitting with him in the front seat, I chose to sit in the back seat with them. They greeted me kindly. However, his 10 year old daughter gave me an evil grin and said "Bye!!!" with an eery look, a look fit for the movie "Children of the Corn." Later when we arrived at our destination there was a kind of party gathering, something that appeared to be thrown at a church, my ex-boyfriend excused himself and said he'd return for us, as he had some business to tend to. During the party, I sort of hung out with his sister and mother. I asked my ex-boyfriend's sister how my ex and his current wife were doing. She replied with "Oh that was over many years ago, he is living Sayerville. I was surprised in the dream and I took that to mean that he was now single and living in Sayerville, Long Island, NY. I remember waking up after that wondering what it all meant.
Dreamer's Analysis: I believe that my ex who has told me that he is in love with me, but will not leave his unhappy marriage, will eventually end up divorced whether he tries to work things out or not. He says he cannot love his wife, because she has a history of being violent toward him and once toward his daughter and he does not trust leaving his daughter to live with her mother alone, as she believes she will be mistreated. I felt that the daughter said "goodbye" to mean that the reason he would not leave his marriage for me, had we tried to divorce our spouses, would be because of his daughter. Still, I get the impression that this dream means that regardless of whether he ends up with me or someone else, he will in fact end up divorced from his current wife.
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